Friday, May 28, 2010

Why the Lows?


It happens to all of us. 1st a high…then a low. Life is full of inspiration and excitement, followed soon thereafter by feelings of emptiness and dullness.

In every part of our material & spiritual lives, we are given exciting successes followed (for what seems like forever!) with a lull in the action. We have to do everything on our own with what seems like no outside help from Above…

Now, it happens to be, that this is the way the world was created & intended to work.

Let’s take a quick look into Jewish History: Abraham is chosen by G-d & Promised the Land of Israel! Wow! But first his descendants have to be enslaved in Egypt. But then we’re freed amongst amazing miracles & wonders! G-d’s With us! 10 plagues & a splitting of a sea later, we’re standing at the foot of Mt. Sinai, meeting G-d “Face to face” & Receiving His Torah - the greatest revelation the world has ever witnessed. What could possibly be more empowering and inspiring as this!?

But then it happens.

We wander in the desert for the next 40 years. Sure we're inspired with receiving the land of Israel and building an awesome temple, but after each high, we're met with a low. We've now been in exile for over 2,000 years. Our history is full of high & lows.

So why does G-d Do this to us? What’s the purpose of all of these long “lows”?

There is 1 major advantage to the “lows” of life, the un-inspired periods. What I attain during these times is mine. When I was inspired - given a “gift” from above - it was a high, but it was imposed from above, w/out personal effort. And therefore when the inspiration left, I was left un-inspired. But when I worked for my success, my inspiration; while being a bit less flashy & exciting, what I achieve & feel is now real. It’s part of who I am.

At Sinai, of course we accepted the Torah. G-d Was very Impressive. He Took us out of Egypt through many miracles, and we couldn’t help but love Him. Be in awe of Him. At Sinai we stood as the bride, G-d as Groom, and we were married with the ring of the Torah, our everlasting bond of love & devotion. Then G-d Took us on a honeymoon to Israel. Everything was fantastic.

In ‘Doesn’t Anyone Blush Anymore?’ (P. 37) Manis Friedman connects this “marriage” of the Jewish People & G-d with marriage between man & woman today: ‘Our admiration for G-d couldn’t help but grow. Then G-d Said, “Honeymoon’s over. No more temples, no more miracles. No more living in a holy land. From now on, it’s just Me and you. If you love Me, you’ll have to love Me for what I am, not for my signs, wonders, or plagues. No more miracles. Just Me.” So the temple was taken away, and we were sent into exile. What happened? Our relationship flourished. Today, in spite of everything, we are as devoted to G-d as ever. We have shown Him love & respect that we didn’t know we were capable of. Feelings that we didn’t know existed were revealed. The same can be true in one's marriage. At the beginning of your relationship, you got carried away b/c there was so much to love, appreciate, and respect. That wasn’t real. That was a gift. A door prize. Just to get you to come to the marriage. For that you didn’t have to be good, or virtuous, or responsible or moral. Now that all the excitement has settled down, there are two people who are responsible to one another, who can love each other & respect each other. That’s real.’

The relationship now has to be built. And the love that ensues is real. Romance is an allusion; real love comes through devotion over time.

May we always remember that the tough work and effort to regain what we were originally inspired with, is what life is all about. The inspiration was a gift. A superficial gift, to get us excited to roll up our sleeves. But what ensues is what will decide if the relationship is a real one or not. And this is when our inner abilities are truly revealed, abilities we never dreamed we could be capable of having. Through G-d’s Hiding Himself from us, He opened the opportunity for us to reveal the G-dliness within.

Good Luck & Shabbat Shalom!

-Daniel

Friday, May 21, 2010

The Singing Heart

B"H





This past Wednesday, during the 1st day of the holiday of Shavuot, the 250th anniversary of the passing of the founder of Chassidism went by quietly, without much notice. Rabbi Yisrael 'Baal Shem Tov' (1698-1760), was a leader who revolutionized Jewish thought and breathed new life into a swooning nation; reeling from pogroms and massacres in Eastern Europe. He taught how the world is being created every moment by the word of
G-d. How every thing a person sees or hears is a lesson for them in their lives and service of G-d. How we must make sure to always be Joyful.

But most of all, he emphasized the importance of loving every fellow Jew like oneself. Independent of how 'great' or 'lowly' a Jew is in their service of G-d. For who are we to know who is more connected to G-d? As The Ba'al Shem Tov taught:
"The wholesome simplicity of the simple Jew touches on the utterly simple essence of G‑d." And: "G‑d's love of each and every Jew is infinitely greater than the love of elderly parents to their only child born to them in their later years."

The miraculous stories involving the Baal Shem Tov are numerous. Here is one that I've always loved, one which emphasizes the power of every single Jew's connection to G-d. It is a story passed down from the 1st Chabad Rebbe down to the 6th Rebbe Yosef Yitzchak Shneerson (1880-1950), who told it as follows:


The Baal Shem Tov displayed a remarkable affection for simple pious folk. This approach was widely known and was a major reason for the tremendous number of simple Jews who became his devotees in a short while, as many accounts attest.

However, his greatest disciples, who were tzadikim (righteous and saintly) and gaonim (Torah geniuses), could not accept this approach. True, the Baal Shem Tov frequently sent them to learn traits like sincerity, trust, simple faith, faith in sages, faith in tzadikim, love of Israel and the like from simple Jews, still they could not appreciate the Baal Shem Tov’s regard for ordinary people, and certainly could not emulate him in this.

It was the practice that guests ate two of the three Shabbat meals at the Baal Shem Tov's table, but one meal--the second, noontime meal-- was reserved for the inner cicle disciples, the "sacred fellowship," while guests were not admitted, even to observe from a distance. One summer Shabbat, between 1753 and 1755--when the circle of disciples included brilliant and renowned men like the Magid of Mezritch and the Rav of Polnoe--an incident occurred that thoroughly perplexed and confused the disciples.

A large number of guests came for that Shabbat, including many undistinguished people like farmers, artisans, cobblers, tailors, vintners, gardeners, stockmen, poultrymen and small merchants. At the Friday evening meal the Baal Shem Tov showed extraordinary affection for these people. He poured of the remains of his kiddush wine into the cup of one, to another he gave his own kiddush cup to recite the kiddush; he gave pieces of the loaves of his hamotzi to several; to others he gave of the meat and fish of his portion. He showed other gestures of friendship and regard for these guests, leaving his disciples no little perplexed.

The guests knew that they could not attend the second Shabbos meal that was reserved for the inner group of disciples, so after their repast they assembled in the Baal Shem Tov's shul, and being totally uneducated, barely able to go beyond simply reading Chumash and Tehillim (psalms), they all started chanting Tehillim.

When the Baal Shem Tov sat at the table for the second meal, he arranged the disciples in a deliberate order, characteristic of the meticulous system governing everything he did. In a short while he started to hold forth, "saying Torah," and all of the disciples felt a tremendous G‑dly delight in their master's teaching. It was customary that they sang at the table, and when they saw the obvious cheery mood of the Baal Shem Tov, they were even more pleased, filled with a sense of gratitude and happiness for G‑d's favor to them, granting them the privilege of being among the disciples of the saintly Baal Shem Tov.

It occurred to several of them that now it is so delightful, without the crowd of simple people who have no idea what their master is saying. Why, they thought, does he display such affection for these people, pouring from his cup into theirs, even giving his cup to one of them.

These thoughts still flitted through their minds and the Baal Shem Tov’s expression changed. He became serious, immersed in his thoughts (d'vekut), and without a shift in this mood he began to speak.

"Peace, peace, to the far and the near," he quoted. Our sages observe that “where the penitent stand the perfect saints cannot,” stressing perfect saints. He explained that there are two paths in G‑d's service--the saint's and the penitent's. The service of simple people is similar to the penitent's, the simple person's humility of an order with the penitent's remorse and resolve.

When the Baal Shem Tov concluded they resumed singing. Those disciples who had been questioning their master’s open affection for simple people, realized that he was aware of their thoughts. His exposition of the qualities of the simple, equating them with the superiority of the penitent over the saint, was obviously addressed to them.

During the songs he was still in his deep d'vekut, and when they finished singing he opened his eyes, intently examining each disciple. Then he told them to each place his right hand on the shoulder of his neighbor, so that the disciples sitting around the table would be joined. The Baal Shem Tov sat at the table's head.

He told them to sing certain melodies while in this position of union, and after the songs he told them to shut their eyes and not open them until he tells them to. Then he placed his right hand on the shoulder of the disciple to his right, and his left on the disciple sitting there. The circle was closed.

Suddenly the disciples heard songs, melodies, interlaced with moving pleas, touching the very soul. One voice sang, "0, Ribbono shel olam (Master of the Universe)," and launched into a verse of Tehillim, "The sayings of G‑d are pure sayings..." Another sang--"Ai, Ribbono shel olam,” and another verse, “Test me G‑d, prove me, purify my heart.” A third introduced his verse with a spontaneous cry in Yiddish--"Tatte hartziger... (heartful fatrher) Be gracious to me; I trust in You and I shelter in the shadow of Your wings." A fourth voice: "Ai gevald, zisser foter in himel, (sweet father in heaven)... Let G‑d arise; His foes will scatter; His enemies will flee." Another voice was anguished. "Tyerer tatte (precious father)... A bird has a home; a swallow a nest." Still another pleaded, "Lieber foter, derbarmdiger tatte, (dear father, merciful father) Bring us back, G‑d who helps, erase your anger against us."

The disciples hearing these songs of Tehillin trembled. Their eyes were still shut but tears coursed down their cheeks. Their hearts were shattered by the songs. Each of the disciples fervently wished that G‑d help him to serve Him in this manner.

The Baal Shem Tov removed his hands from the shoulders of the two disciples, and the group no longer heard the songs and Tehillim. Then he told them to open their eyes and to sing a number of designated songs.

"When I heard the song of Tehillim," the Maggid later told Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi, "my soul just spilled forth. I felt such a longing, such blissful love (ahava b'taanugim), that I had never yet been privileged to feel. My boots were soaked with the perspiration and tears of teshuvah from the inwardness and depths of the heart."

When the Baal Shem Tov stopped singing an instantaneous hush fell over the group. He sat in deep dvekut for a prolonged time, then looked up and said, "The songs you heard were the songs of the simple Jews saying Tehillim with sincerity, from the recesses of the heart and with simple faith.

"Now, my pupils, think carefully on this. We are only the 'edge of truth' (sefat emet) for the body is not truth and only the soul is truth, and it is only part of the essence, and so is called the 'edge of truth.' Still we do recognize truth, and feel truth and are affected by truth, affected deeply. Consider then how G‑d Who is perfect Truth regards the Tehillim of these simple people...."

Shabbat Shalom!

-Daniel

For more on the Baal Shem Tov, see: Baal Shem Tov

Thursday, May 6, 2010

A Fighter's Chance

B"H



~This email is dedicated by the Bortz Family, to Pascal & Ori on their engagement. You should have only joy & success in your life together. Mazel Tov!!


"Be'chol derachecha Da'eihu" - In all your ways, know Him.
(Proverbs 3:6)

On June 5th, in the new Yankee Stadium in New York, Yuri Foreman will box Puerto Rican great Miguel Cotto,
with his Junior Middleweight title belt on the line. What makes this fight so intriguing (beyond being 2 great boxing talents),
is that Foreman is an orthodox Jew, who outside the ring is busy learning to become a Rabbi.

"Who would want to hit a Rabbi?" Foreman joked on this week's Jimmy Kimmel late night TV show.
Well, Cotto for one.

What brought a boxer, of all people, to go & explore his spiritual side? And how can he possibly mold these 2 seemingly opposing worlds together?

Foreman says that he felt something was missing.
As Jewish Mysticism teaches us, each of us are made up of a body & a soul. Just like the body needs food to thrive, so does the soul.
Rabbi Schwartz from L.A. once told me that he had a weekly Torah learning session with Adam Sandler. When the discussion one time moved to movie success,
Sandler (who averages $20 million a movie) told him: "I make all the money in the world. But the happiest day of my week is when I'm here learning with you!"
How could that be!? Isn't being a hollywood star the pinnacle of material success? Shouldn't this bring joy?
But as we see all too often, the soul in a person yearns for something more. Transcendence from the mundane. Truth. Inner peace. And that's found in the Torah.

How can Foreman balance life as a boxer and an observant Jew? The fame, Vegas, interviews, tv shows, training, fighting?
He speaks of the Jewish view, that the greatest way to reach the highest spiritual levels, is specifically through dealing with the physical world and elevating it.
When the fans, the press, and TV viewers see his good character traits, humble character, and devotion to G-d & Judaism, it sanctifies G-d's Name in the world,
making a real "kiddush Hashem."

From Maimonides (The great 12th-century sage who also served as the head doctor to the Sultan) to the reggae star Matisyahu, we Jews have been given amazing examples
of the ability to successfully blend Judaism with material endeavors. But it definitely isn't easy. The world doesn't seem, at least at first glance,
to be very conducive to such expression. How can keeping Shabbat or wearing a kippa possibly help me to succeed in life? But as we see with the stars of today like Foreman,
if they can do it, we certainly can.
The world wants to see something more, something deeper. And so do our souls.

Let's follow in Yuri's example and integrate more Torah & Mitzvot into our lives, thereby making sure that we enter the material world in order to lift it up,
not to be taken down by it. And let's pray for our brother Yuri's success on June 5th - Go Yuri!

To view the beautiful 6 min. ESPN E:60 show, click: Yuri Foreman

Shabbat Shalom!

-Daniel
Jerusalem